Before I met my husband I had no idea about the simple pleasure that comes from eating an oyster po-boy and gulping down an ice-cold Barqās root beer from a bottle. I thought Mardi Gras parades were only in New Orleans, and what the heck were you supposed to do with a crawfish?
Over the years, Iāve come to appreciate and admire the customs and culture that define the Mississippi Gulf Coast. Itās a community of tight-knit family and friends. Itās so tight, in fact, that if youāre an outsider looking in you donāt know if the man referred to as Uncle Jack is friend or an actual blood relative. In my husbandās case, Jack had no brothers or sisters, so he shared my father-in-lawās four siblings; therefore, he earned the title Uncle.
Often, folks living away will talk about how the Coast pulls you back. āItās the water; it gets in your blood,ā is a phrase I hear from countless Coast natives. For those natives that live away from their hometown, such as my husband and others, thereās a connection that always brings them together, and that connection was so clearly evident last Aug. 29, 2005.
The days, weeks and months that followed Hurricane Katrina proved to me that the spirit of the Mississippi Gulf Coast will always continue to thrive. Although homes might be gone and a sea of blue tarps may drape across the roofs of entire neighborhoods, the importance of getting back to family traditions is a top priority for many.
So much of the culture that makes the Coast unique is found in its cuisine. While locations for family gatherings might have changed for some, youāll still find the same traditional foods that have been carried down for generations. The gumbo that my husbandās aunts make every Fourth of July just wouldnāt taste the same had it not been cooked in the same pot his grandmother had used for years. For many, the pots might be gone, but the recipes remain the same. Whether or not itās Grannyās gumbo or a fried oyster po-boy from the Fayardās BP, the comfort of coastal cuisine brings a sense of the familiar to a region thatās having to reestablish itself.
Seeing the message āWeāll Be Backā on the side wall of Mary Mahoneyās restaurant in downtown Biloxi confirmed to me that the spirit of the Mississippi Coast will never falter. While it was still surrounded by debris, Mary Mahoneyās re-opened, serving her savory gumbo and decadent bread pudding.
Hereās my take on a classic Coast dessert: bread pudding served with a bourbon cinnamon sauce. Save a little bourbon for yourself and give a toast to the Coast.

