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I used to boycott Valentineโ€™s Day, but Cupid finally hit me square in the butt with one of those arrows a few years ago. Now my pro-Valentineโ€™s playlist is actually longer than the anti-Valentineโ€™s. Hooray for love! But for those of you still swearing off all things Valentineโ€™s, Iโ€™ve got you covered, too. Here are my picks for your Anti- or Pro-Valentineโ€™s playlists.

Anti-Valentineโ€™s Playlist
โ€ข โ€œDonโ€™t Think Twiceโ€โ€”Bob Dylan (I prefer the cover by Susan Tedeschi)
โ€ข โ€œI Am Trying to Break Your Heartโ€ โ€”Wilco
โ€ข โ€œAinโ€™t No Sunshine When Sheโ€™s Goneโ€โ€”Bill Withers
โ€ข The entire โ€œDilateโ€ albumโ€”Ani DiFranco (Riot Grrrl at her finest)
โ€ข โ€œBest of Youโ€โ€”Foo Fighters
โ€ข โ€œSong for the Dumpedโ€โ€”Ben Folds Five (a perennial break-up favorite)
โ€ข โ€œEveryday I Love You Less and Lessโ€โ€”Kaiser Chiefs (cute video also)
โ€ข โ€œI Hate Everything About Youโ€โ€”Ugly Kid Joe (of course!)
โ€ข โ€œDonโ€™t Go Away Mad, Just Go Awayโ€โ€”Motley Crue
โ€ข โ€œLove Hurtsโ€โ€”Nazareth

Valentineโ€™s Playlist
โ€ข โ€œLittle Wingโ€โ€”Jimi Hendrix or Stevie Ray Vaughn (either version will do)
โ€ข โ€œIn Spite of Ourselvesโ€โ€”John Prine and Iris Dement
โ€ข โ€œHave a Little Faith In Meโ€โ€”John Hiatt
โ€ข โ€œMade Up Lovesongโ€โ€”Guillemots
โ€ข โ€œMiss Maybelleโ€โ€”R.L. Burnside (I love that he wants to be her โ€œhoppinโ€™ frogโ€!)
โ€ข โ€œLetโ€™s Stay Togetherโ€โ€”Al Green
โ€ข โ€œListening Manโ€โ€”A Band of Bees
โ€ข โ€œGrits Ainโ€™t Groceriesโ€โ€”Little Milton
โ€ข โ€œLove Songโ€โ€”The Cure
โ€ข โ€œAt Lastโ€โ€”Etta James
โ€ข โ€œI Want a Little Sugar in My Bowlโ€โ€”Nina Simone
โ€ข โ€œLove Is Here to Stayโ€โ€”Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong

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rounding out the anti-valentine’s list: “Love will Tear us Apart” – Joy Division “But not for Me” – Sarah Vaughan “Walk on By” – Dionne Warwick “I get along with you very well” – Chet Baker and for Valentine’s lovers, I really like Elliott Smith’s “Say Yes”


โ€ข “I Hate Everything About You”โ€”Ugly Kid Joe (of course!) How could you not include that song! Other anti-Valentine’s songs: “Fuck It”, Eamon “Tainted Love”, Soft Cell “Tyrone”, Erykah Badu “Irreplaceable”, Beyonce “The Rain”, Oran “Juice” Jones “Just A Friend”, Biz Markie “Does She Love That Man”, Breathe “Everything You Want”, Vertical Horizon “Kiss And Say Goodbye”, The Manhattans “Why Don’t You Get A Job”, Offspring (read the lyrics and you’ll see why)