Pam Confer’s “Mississippi Beautiful” is the soundtrack to the last gallery visitors to the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum enter, sending them home with words of hope. Now, her follow-up song is more decidedly about standing up and taking action during a pivotal time in U.S. history. Photo by Jay D. Johnson.

‘If You’re With Me, Stand’: Pam Confer’s ‘Inspirational Chant’ Urges Taking Action

“Who are we? How are we living? Who are we? Our legacy is now, for we know our strength, our pride, our power. Mississippi, who are we?”

These lyrics to Jackson, Miss., singer Pam Confer’s original song “Mississippi Beautiful” resonate as a fitting backdrop in “Gallery 8: “Where Do We Go From Here” at the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum as visitors entered the last room after experiencing an intense journey. Four years after writing that piece, and now on the brink of hard-hitting social and civil change, Confer is ready to bring a new message to Mississippi and anyone willing to listen.

Pam Confer (right) sits with Trinity Spille, a 12-year-old activist from Brandon (Miss.) Middle School at a Facebook Live conversation at Sal & Mookie’s in Jackson after she debuted the song on Juneteeth. They talked about race, diversity and justice.

Now she has a follow-up single, “Stand,” which she released and sang on June 19 at a public press conference in front of the “JXN Icons” mural across the street from the Two Mississippi Museums in Jackson.

“Listen, oh yes, I’m talking to you. This is the same thing that we said before. So stand up, stand up, stand up … We can all change the world if we just change our hearts and our minds … ,” she sang on Juneteenth.

“I wrote ‘Stand’ a few years ago, and the lyrics of the song are so moving and have such conviction that I wanted to make sure that the audience and the timing was right for people to hear it,” she told the Mississippi Free Press. “Because if the timing was not just right, then they’ll miss the entire message, and therefore I’m unable to give the change I’m looking for. This is the ripe time for people to hear it.”

While “Stand” has its own powerful message, it does have a connection to “Mississippi Beautiful.”

“‘Mississippi Beautiful’ was written to ask people questions: ‘Who are we? What is our legacy? What are we going to tell our children?’” Confer said. “Ironically, ‘Stand’ is a song of conviction. So if you’ve had a few years to ask yourself (these questions), ‘stand if you’re with me, and if you’re with me, stand’. We’ve heard all these things for far too long. ‘This ain’t right,’ and ‘I can’t breathe.’ This is the time,” she said.

‘More of a Discreet Modern-day Slavery’

Premiering the song on Juneteenth carries much significance for Confer.

“To me, although it is the official day of the emancipation of slaves, to have the song released on that day, … it’s kind of like the releasing of your mind, of your conscience, maybe your denial, giving yourself an opportunity to be free in that moment, make the right decisions, do the right things, and take the right good actions,” she said.

“The song really captures everything that we have been through as it relates to modern-day slavery, right? We just migrated and transitioned into more of a discreet modern-day slavery, and we can end that on Juneteenth with freeing ourselves from the understanding that that is OK.”

Pam Confer talks with restaurateur Jeff Good during her “Stand” event at Sal & Mookies, which he co-owns. Photo courtesy Pam Confer.

Both the song’s title and its resounding theme center on all people finally coming together and standing as one.

“We all can play our part. Everybody can’t go and protest, but you can have a conversation with a parent. You can have clarity about the real history of Mississippi and this country, the real role of historians and what they did,” she said.

“So stand in your own way, but this is all of our time to stand as one.”

‘It’s Not How You Shine, It’s Who You Polish’

Confer’s belief in the need for people to come together and take a stand for what’s right has always been a driving force in her life. A Memphis, Tenn., native, Confer attended Lane College, earning a bachelor’s degree in sociology. During her tenure, she set a foundation for her life’s passion through public speaking, writing academic papers on disparities for African Americans in society and pageantry, including being crowned Miss Lane College and competing in the Miss Tennessee pageant, where she used her platforms to continue educating and speaking.

She believes we need more action to create lasting change.

“Each and every one of us can make a good difference in our community,” Confer said. “It’s important that as a unit, that as a collective, we’re doing this. Because the reason why we’re facing the issues that we’re dealing with right now, it’s not that people were not aware. The issue is that as a collective, we failed to act, for a variety of reasons, and now what we are doing is acting, and I would like for more of the attention to be on that.”

Confer went on to obtain her master’s degree in public policy and administration from Jackson State University, and has done work in cultural diversity training, business consulting, professional speaking and human resource management. Though the worlds of public relations and singing/songwriting may seem unrelated to some people, Confer believes they share a close connection.

Songstress Pam Confer is releasing her new “inspirational chant” on Friday, June 26, on Apple Music, Spotify, YouTube and other major streaming platforms, and on pamconfer.com.

“It’s messaging, and I think the beauty of any artist, whether they are a singer or visual artist or musician, is that you can touch people in so many different ways, because everyone is not touched by the same single message,” she said.

“I’m grateful that I have three avenues: I can sing a song, I can train people, and I can speak to people. There’s not one sector I haven’t touched … because I can make sure that in my heart, I have tried everything that I can try to reach people. … I want to give them all 100% because it may be one person that can change the lives of thousands.”

Confer is optimistic about the future and believes that by focusing on others, we can make the greatest impact.

“My personal quote is, ‘It’s not how you shine, it’s who you polish,’” she said. “If we could focus on polishing other people, then we shine anyway, like shining up a silver platter. You know, you shine it, and you look into (it), and you still see yourself. So if we can give the greatest part of ourselves to other people, then we shine anyway.”

Pam Confer will officially release “Stand” on Friday, June 26, on Apple Music, Spotify, YouTube, and other major streaming platforms, as well as on pamconfer.com

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